Tuesday, December 6, 2011

eye candy: harry shum jr.

so i don't usually drool over bare chests, but this is a big deal to me for other reasons... and yeah, he's pretty easy on the eyes. my friends, i give you: harry shum, jr.


on one level, i'm happy to see an asian american male being highlighted as a sex symbol. i'm tired of seeing asian guys portrayed as asexual/non-threatening/quirky/laughable characters (exceptions that come to mind: bruce lee + any asian guy that shows up in the never-ending fast and furious franchise). current asian guys on TV, off the top of my head: aziz ansari, parks + rec; ken jeong + danny pudi, community; daniel dae kim + masi oka, hawaii five-o;  john cho + b.d. wong, various cameos; the neighbor on king of the hill. these guys rarely get laid in TVland, even though many of them are fine. instead, they're often the funny, off-beat goofballs who crack jokes + act crazy while their white male counterparts act rugged + tough + end up with hot women in their beds.


on a more emotional level, i remember how hard it was for my brother + many of my asian guy friends when we were growing up + trying to figure out how to be cool in a world where there were so few cool asians in mainstream media to imitate. top gun came out when my brother was 5; we wore out our VHS copy, which was in heavy rotation until he was 10, maybe even after that (at that point i stopped spending time at home). i believe he would have given anything to be Maverick- to be rugged + tough, but most of all, to be universally admired by men + women. he developed an insecurity that i think i've noticed in other asian guys too, even long after they've left the torturous teenage years.


and then, decades later: harry shum, jr! someone anyone would love to hang out with- funny, an amazing dancer, good-looking, and cool. in TVland, he also plays a nonthreatening/quirky character, but that description applies to most of the guys on glee. in real life land, he's getting a lot of attention for his abs (seems like every magazine photo of him has him shirtless, as if his torso is allergic to fabric). i emailed people magazine to ask how many asian men have been selected for sexy man honors, but i doubt i'll get a reply. at any rate, i'm pretty sure the answer is a number under 10. which is why i'm adding harry shum, jr. to my "things that i'm thankful for" list.

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